Thursday 21 August 2008

why no no...


I know a girl, a very good friend of mine... have known her for almost more than 20 years now...
Sweet and bubbly, with a perfect smile... and she has a blessed heart that philters to always help others...

It has been always like this, her turning out of the way to help her friends and anyone she found needy... I have seen her running around with super-numerous strength and energy, trying to help everyone in her wake.

But there had been many times when this boon turned out to be a twinge to her heart... when she needed support, there was no-one to look upon... well her family was there always, but she lived away from them, so she was all alone in her own turmoil...
Sometimes she came to me to talk about, but what could I have done except listen and give appropriate advice...

But still she can never say no, tough, but very true... she is too soft to say no...
Perhaps she should accept it as part of her identity... coz even after so many setbacks... she doesn’t seems to be enervated et all... living in the fairy-tales... perhaps Alice in the Wonderland?

But at times when her eyes bleeds, she asks herself... why no ‘no’?

1 comment:

--xh-- said...

staying 'no' without hurting is an art which is not easy to master...